So today is Aiden’s second birthday, and I just wanted to write up a quick post in celebration! This boy means the world to me. I can’t believe he’s already turning two. I still remember holding him for the first time. I had no idea how much of an impact he would have on me. I didn’t know I could love a little person so much.
I’m so proud of Aiden. I love watching him grow and learn. I especially love that as he gets older, we can communicate more and more. I can’t wait to see what God has in store for him, and I am so honored that I get to be a part of it. Happy birthday, Aiden! Uncle Dev loves you very much.
This past Sunday, I had the honor of leading children’s worship at Ozark Free Will Baptist Church. We had a good time singing, playing games, and talking about God. I’m very glad they asked me to come. But before children’s service, I attended the church’s adult Sunday School class. We talked about Job, the story from the Bible of a godly man who lost everything but still kept his faith. Mike, the teacher, read from Job 2, and a couple of verses really stood out to me.
“Now when Job’s three friends—Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite—heard about all this adversity that had happened to him, each of them came from his home. They met together to go and sympathize with him and comfort him… Then they sat with him seven days and seven nights, but no one spoke a word to him because they saw that his suffering was very intense.” —Job 2:11, 13 (HCSB)
Job was going through the most difficult time of his life. He had lost his possessions, his children, and his good health, all in a very short period of time. He knew that he hadn’t done anything to deserve all of these terrible things. Job was hurting, confused, and alone. And when his friends came to him, what did they do? They simply sat there with him.
We all have a tendency to want to fix things. When we see a loved one that’s hurting, we want to do something to make their situation better, or say something that offers them some sort of comfort. The desire to help is good, and there is a time and a place for doing things, but sometimes—really, most of the time—what our hurting loved ones need is simply our presence. Not our words. Not our actions. Just us.
Until you’re in a situation where you really need someone, you can’t fully understand how much it means just to know that you’re not alone. Just to be able to look beside you and know that someone is there. Just to be able to look into someone’s eyes and know that they care for you and that they’re there for you. I think we forget that when we’re trying to comfort people. We busy ourselves with trying to find the right words to say or the right things to do when we could be so much more help if we just stopped and sat with the person for as long as they needed.
Being present is hard. When you’re sitting next to someone who is going through something you can’t even being to understand and you see their pain and all you want to do is help, it’s hard to stop and just be there. We live in a world that is so hectic and fast-paced. We forget what it’s like to be completely present in one place for a while. It takes effort. It’s much more difficult than talking. But it’s so important that we choose to be present with people when they’re hurting, because that’s what they really need.
And when we choose to present with someone who is in pain, that’s when we really can connect with them. That’s when we can feel their pain with them and at least get a glimpse of what they’re going through. We can understand them better, and that can be good for the comforter as well as the person who is in pain. It creates a mutuality that words just can’t. It’s a beautiful thing.
I’ve been guilty of not being present when trying to comfort people who are in pain. Especially if it’s someone who is constantly coming to you for comfort, it can be difficult to be fully present every time. But when you half-heartedly try to comfort someone in pain while not being fully present, you actually do more harm than good. Making someone feel like they’re not worth your full attention when they need someone to rely on can not only hurt them but also limit the likelihood of that person coming to you for help in the future. Being present with someone who’s hurting is the most difficult way of comforting them, but it’s the best way, and it’s something we should all try to do.
Recently, a friend texted me needing someone to talk to after a hard day. I knew I could respond in one of two ways: I could either try to offer comfort over text, or I could take the time out of my day to meet up with my friend and actually be present like Job’s friends were. I chose to be present in my friend’s time of need, and I’m glad that I did. My friend felt better after we spent some time together, and I was glad to have helped my friend out. I’m not saying all that to pat myself on the back. I was only doing what a friend is supposed to do. But what I am saying is that choosing to be present with your loved ones when they’re hurting works, and it’s beneficial for you, too.
Being present is rewarding for everyone involved. It shows the person that’s hurting that they’re worth your time and attention. And it helps you connect with that person in a way that you normally wouldn’t be able to. So take some time today to be fully present with your loved ones. It doesn’t have to be a big deal. Make an effort to just be there for a little while, and see what happens. I promise you won’t be disappointed.
When I was in high school, I had a Bible that fit into my back pocket, and I carried it with me everywhere. It was one of my most prized possessions. No matter where I went, I had instant access to God’s word, so if I had a free minute, I could do my Bible reading. It was great, and it served as a good conversation-starter when I met someone. I was “the Bible guy.”
Now, my pocket Bible sits on the shelf. I’m afraid that it’s on the verge of falling apart. But I still carry the Bible with me everywhere I go. In fact, I carry hundreds of different versions of the Bible in my pocket everyday thanks to the Bible app by YouVersion.
The Bible app is hands-down the best way to read God’s word on the go. They offer the Bible for free in tons of different languages and translations on a beautiful app created for just about every platform. It’s available on iOS, Android, Windows Phone, Blackberry, and more. Not to mention their newly-revamped website. The goal of YouVersion is to make God’s word available to everyone all the time, and they’re taking great steps in that direction.
We all know the importance of reading the Bible everyday. It’s an integral part of spiritual growth. And the Bible app makes it easy to get into the habit of digging into God’s word on a daily basis. They offer a variety of reading plans designed to help you read the Bible everyday, and many of them offer devotionals to go along with the scripture readings. Whether you want to read the whole Bible in a year or study about a specific topic, the Bible app has a plan for you.
And they have tools to help you stay on track. You can set a reminder to pop up daily at a certain time to remind you to read. If you get a few days behind, YouVersion will send you a kind email encouraging you get back on track and even showing you how to adjust your plan so you won’t stay behind. I use the Bible app for my daily Bible reading, and I am extremely pleased with it. I’ve read every day for the past two and a half years thanks to the Bible app. If you’ve been making excuses about reading the Bible, give the app a try. It will help you turn daily Bible readings into a habit in no time.
The Bible app also tries to help your spiritual growth by offering special content based on the time of year. Easter is this week, so a lot of people have been taking advantage of the Bible app’s Holy Week plans to prepare for the big day. They also put out special plans during Christmas time and at the beginning of the year to help you start out on the right foot. They are constantly updating with new, relevant content to help you on your spiritual walk.
Another cool feature about the Bible app is the number of translations available. If I’m reading a verse that I don’t totally understand or want to get a different perspective on, I can quickly switch to a different translation and compare them. This has helped me in my personal Bible study, but it’s also helpful in group studies where different people can read different translations and discuss the discrepancies between them. The Bible offers 809 versions in 528 different languages, including most of the popular English translations and the original Hebrew and Greek.
There are other great tools on the app, too. There’s no way I could get into all of them in one blog post. They post a daily verse of the day for contemplation and encouragement. They offer video content to go along with The Bible miniseries and the Son of God movie. You can bookmark verses, write notes about them, and share them with friends via social media. You can select a verse and read other people’s notes about them to see what people around the world have to say about any certain verse. And with the new Bible App 5 update, you can add friends within the app, see what verse they are sharing, and have conversations with each other within the app. I haven’t had a chance to try this feature out for myself, but it has potential. A social network based on the Bible. Imagine that!
The Bible app from YouVersion is a must-have for any 21st-century Christian or anyone who is just interested in learning about the Bible. The app makes the Bible readily available for free to anyone anywhere with an Internet connection. That is so amazing to me. The app helps support personal spiritual growth and connection with other people of faith. What a meaningful way to use technology. Check out the Bible app’s website and download the app for your device. Happy reading!
On this blog, I try to keep a regular schedule. I post a personal blog post on Tuesdays and a Stuff Devon Likes review on Saturdays, with some sporadic bonus posts every once in a while. I’ve been told by several professional content creators that consistency is key when you’re trying to create digital content. It gives the readers—you guys—an idea of what to expect, and it gives me a deadline each week for when I need to have something finished and published. I think keeping a weekly schedule is good for me and for my website.
But I’m also a perfectionist. I like to have time to think these posts through, write them, revise them, and even get feedback on them before I put them out there for the whole world to see. If I had things my way, I would have a post for next week already written out (or at least outlined) as I’m sharing this one with you. But that is rarely the case. Because of school, church, and family responsibilities, I don’t always have that kind of time to dedicate to a blog post. Sometimes I only have a few hours to get something written and published, and that can result in me publishing something that I’m not completely satisfied with.
I think we all can relate to this feeling. Everyone has deadlines. If you’re a student, you know what it’s like to have to write a paper by a certain date. In the work force, deadlines are imposed in order to get things done in a timely manner. And at home, chores have to be done by a certain time, or the house becomes dirty and unlivable. We live in a world full of deadlines. And sometimes, those deadlines come before we’re ready for them to. Here are a few things I try to keep in mind when I have to finish something—whether it be a blog post, a paper, a task, or anything else—before I’m totally happy with it.
1. Nothing is perfect.
As I said before, I’m a perfectionist. I like everything to be neat, tidy, and in its place. If I read something that I posted a while back and find a typo, I get very upset. I know it’s silly, but that’s just the way I am. If I’m going to attach my name to something, I want it to be perfect, or as close to perfect as it can be. This can be a problem when I’m trying to put out content every week, so I try to keep my perfectionism under control by reminding myself that literally nothing is perfect.
My thesis advisor, Dr. Williamson, often says, “There’s alway a different way to write a sentence.” At first, I didn’t believe him. But one day, we did an exercise where we picked sentences from our papers and talked about different ways they could be written. That exercise showed me that even if I think something is really good, that doesn’t mean that it can’t be improved. Even if I went through every sentence of my thesis and made sure it was written the best way I know how, someone could still read it and find at least one sentence that could be written better. My thesis will never be perfect because it will never be in a place where I can’t make it better.
And that’s OK. Imperfections are a part of the creation process. Some imperfections can be found and fixed easily. Some might go unnoticed for years. But the truth is nothing you create or do is ever going to be 100% perfect or beyond improvement. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. If you could write the perfect blog post, why would you ever write another one? If you could make your house 100% clean, wouldn’t you be tempted to just never use it again so you won’t mess up your perfection? There’s something very real and compelling about imperfection. It’s something we can all relate to. So don’t feel bad about imperfections. Fix the ones you can, and accept the ones you can’t. And remember, nothing is perfect.
2. You can always revisit it later.
College has taught me a lot about drafting. The first version of anything you write is not going to be the best it can be. It’s just not. I used to think that revising was stupid. I didn’t understand how I could improve something I had already worked so hard on. But looking back now at some of my writings in the past, I see things that I couldn’t see then. I see ways I could have made my argument stronger. I see ways I could have re-worded sentences to make them more appealing. I see connections to other subjects that I didn’t have access to at the time. Going back to something you’ve created in the past and revising it can lead to something totally new and exciting.
Adam Young, who many of you may know as musician Owl City, once said in an interview, “I don’t believe albums are ever finished; they’re just abandoned.” While that may sound a little harsh, I think it’s true for most creative endeavors. We create something, and we improve it until we get it to a point where we find it satisfactory, and then we throw it out there for everyone to see. But does that really mean we’re done with it? Not necessarily.
If you hit a deadline and you know that what you’ve got isn’t your best work, find comfort in the fact that just because a deadline comes, that doesn’t mean you have to be completely finished with what you’re working on. It should be complete and at least adequate. But if you decide later on that you want to improve it and share it again, you can do that. And you’ll probably have a great time doing it.
3. Sometimes, deadlines are more important than quality.
It’s sad but true. No content creator wants to hear this, but every once in a while, quality has to take a back seat. Consistency is important, and once you break that cycle, you may never get back into it. If you release something sub-par one week, you’ll always have an opportunity to do better next week. But if you break your cycle altogether, then you may miss out on creating things that you love, and no one wants that. Plus, even making something that you think isn’t good is a learning experience. You can refine your process and find out how you work best by allowing yourself to fail sometimes.
This shouldn’t be a regular thing. If you constantly find yourself scrambling to meet deadlines and not enjoying the work you put out, it might be time to re-think your schedule or even take a break from the creative process altogether. But if you just have one off week and have to release something you’re not particularly proud of but can put up with, you’ll be alright. Everyone finds themselves in that place from time to time, and the people you’re sharing with will understand.
Content creation is a wonderful process, and I’m so glad I decided to be a part of it. Blogging has been so good for me. But I still have my off weeks. When you’re struggling with putting something out there that doesn’t quite fit your level of quality, I hope you’ll keep these things in mind. And if I ever have an off week, I hope you’ll bear with me. Thank you for reading, and I’ll see you guys on Saturday for Stuff Devon Likes!
On the cover of its April 8, 1966 issue, Time magazine posed the question, “Is God dead?” This question was inspired by Friedrich Nietzsche, a German philosopher, who claimed in 1882 (and several times afterward) that God is dead. The idea is not that God has somehow died or stopped existing, but that God never existed, and He is now irrelevant in a modern, secular society. A lot of people bought into this notion and answered the question, “Is God dead?” with a resounding, “Yes!” After all, we’ve accumulated enough information about the universe and our place in it to understand everything without any appeals to a supreme deity, right?
Well, apparently not. Contrary to a predictions by proponents of total secularism, we live in a world full of believers. God is still extremely relevant in the lives of billions of people around the world, including many world leaders. Faith plays a major role in all aspects of society, and that’s not going to go away anytime soon. So in 2011, the Christian band Newsboys stated their answer to Time magazine’s question in the form of their album and its accompanying title track: God’s Not Dead. The song instantly became popular in the Christian Contemporary Music scene, and it inspired the creation of a film by the same name that came out last month.
I saw God’s Not Dead last week, and I knew I had to review it. I have a lot to say about this film, both good and bad, so I’ve split this review into sections. I’ll start with a very broad overview of my thoughts on the film, followed by a few complaints, and finish by highlighting what I thought were praiseworthy aspects of the movie.
General Thoughts
When I first heard of God’s Not Dead, I wasn’t excited about it. Their big draw was the guest appearance by Willie Robertson, and that’s just not something that appealed to me. But when I saw the trailer, it changed my mind. It was an appealing, professional-looking trailer with a neat concept. I was glad to see that the next big Christian film was at least going to look good. So I decided I would go see it. Apparently, I wasn’t the only one.
The initial reaction to God’s Not Dead was amazing. Theaters were packed. Financially, it outperformed all expectations, and that quickly led to other venues picking it up and spreading the movie around. Even the second weekend after its release, God’s Not Dead was still selling out. I went on a Sunday afternoon, which isn’t exactly a busy movie day, and still the room was packed, and there was a pretty substantial group waiting to see the movie when we got out. This movie is making a splash, and for good reason.
The message of the film is in its title, and it’s something people need to hear. Even though Nietzsche’s predictions haven’t come true, there are still people who believe that God is irrelevant in our society, and the movie serves as a unique way of telling people that God is alive and well. The message of the movie alone, apart from the quality or the cast or any qualms someone might have with it, makes it worth going to see. I think children, youth groups, young adults, older adults, and everyone in-between would do well to see this movie because it has a great, inspiring message that calls Christians to take action, and that’s something I support wholeheartedly. However, that doesn’t mean the movie was perfect.
Some Concerns
The entire premise of the plot of God’s Not Dead has been criticized for being unrealistic, and I have to admit that as I watched the film, I did feel some of that skepticism welling up inside of me. For those of you who don’t know, the main plot of God’s Not Dead centers around a college freshman named Josh who takes on his atheist philosophy professor to prove God’s existence. On the first day of class, the professor tries to force every student to publicly state that God is dead. When Josh protests, the professor forces him to argue for God’s existence in front of the class, and the stakes are high. If Josh can’t prove God’s existence in three 20-minute lectures, his grade in the class will be dropped three letter grades.
Growing up, I heard the horror stories about going to college. “College professors are all atheists. They’ll try to talk you out of believing in God.” I’m sure you’ve all read the fictional story about the professor who openly argued with the Christian student in class about God’s existence only to proven wrong and converted to Christianity. But as I’ve gone to college and experienced it, I haven’t seen any of these horror stories become reality. My professors don’t attack students’ personal beliefs. They teach their subjects and respect each individual’s right to come to his or her own conclusions. That’s been my experience, at least.
Granted, I go to a private, religiously-affiliated school. I’ve heard that some public school professors can be a little less respectful and a little more hostile towards Christianity. But these stories are few, far-between, and not nearly as extreme as the stories I was told as a kid, or the story of Josh in God’s Not Dead. While it is the nature of film to portray extreme situations, I think this portrayal of a college professor may be harmful. It perpetuates the stereotypes about public college and may even dissuade families from sending their kids to good, public schools.
I’m not saying there aren’t any dangers associated with being a Christian in college. There are a lot of opportunities to be drawn away from faith in college. It is important to prepare students for the freedoms and temptations they will face when they go to college and to support them as they try to navigate that new world. But, Christian students should not go into college expecting that they will be forced to publicly defend their faith against hostile professors in the classroom. That’s just not realistic, and I hope that God’s Not Dead did not serve to perpetuate those false stereotypes within the Christian community.
So that was my main concern. A few others had to do with tokenism: using one character or small groups of characters to represent a complex, diverse group of people. There was one Muslim family featured in the film, and it included a lot of stereotypes. The father forced his daughter to wear the hijab (headdress) against her will, and he kicked her out of the house when she turned away from the Muslim faith. While these things do happen in the real world, I don’t think it’s fair to say (or imply) that all Muslim families are this way, or that Christian families aren’t capable of doing something similar (purity rings, anyone?). There was also only one politically liberal character, and she encompassed all kinds of stereotypes about liberals, including having a “Meat is murder” bumper sticker on her car and complaining to Willie Robertson about his family praying on their TV show. (Side note: Has anyone ever actually complained about the Robertsons praying on Duck Dynasty? I doubt it.)
I’m not saying that the filmmakers purposely put these characters into the movie to perpetuate stereotypes. The characters have very important functions within the plot of the movie, and some of them are very compelling. Also, it’s impossible to represent a diverse group of people like Muslims or liberals in a two-hour film, and there was a limit on the number of actors they could hire. I just want viewers to be careful that they don’t let these specific portrayals of single characters affect their understandings of whole groups of people.
After reading all that, you may get the impression that I hated God’s Not Dead. That’s not the case. I really enjoyed the movie. I just didn’t appreciate some of the stereotypes the movie was perpetuating, and I hope that viewers will be careful about which aspects of the movie they choose to incorporate into their daily lives and which parts they dismiss. Because there is a lot that a Christian can take away from this film. I’d like to highlight just a few of the things I liked the most about it.
What I Liked
First of all, the movie looked great. I love to see Christian professionals using their skills to praise God and spread His message of love, and I think this film does that. I’ve seen some Christian films that were obviously low-budget or amateur, and they just aren’t as effective. God’s Not Dead looked as good as any other movie you’ll see in theaters these days, and I really appreciated that.
The soundtrack was also really great. It was nice to see Christian filmmakers collaborating with Christian music artists to make the movie better. Of course the Newsboys song “God’s Not Dead” was featured prominently, but other songs like Shane Harper’s “Hold You Up” and Stellar Kart’s “Ones and Zeros” were also included. I left the movie thinking, “I’ve got to have that album.” And if a Christian film can draw people to listen to Christian music in their day-to-day lives, I think that increases its impact remarkably.
I was afraid that the cameos by Willie Robertson and the Newsboys would be distracting from the plot of the movie, but they actually tied in really well. God’s Not Dead has a very large cast. It tells a lot of stories and weaves them together in a very real—but also very convenient—way. The Robertsons and the Newsboys aren’t in the movie a lot, but their appearances are important. I think the filmmakers found a good balance between not featuring them too much and still living up to their promises of including them in the film.
God’s Not Dead also presents the gospel in a clear, effective way. I’m not sure how many non-Christians will see this movie, but the ones that do will walk out knowing the story of Jesus Christ and the effect He has on people’s lives. Christians struggle sometimes to find a way to tell others about Jesus in a way that doesn’t seem pushy or cliche. God’s Not Dead didn’t come off as either of those. Instead, it was heartfelt and appealing. I don’t think the main purpose for God’s Not Dead was to convert people to Christianity, but I’m sure it was a goal the filmmakers had in mind, and it has the potential to do just that.
But, the film is also realistic in that it doesn’t end with everything being perfect. Yes, some of the characters come to Jesus and have their lives changed during the film, but others do not. There are some loose ends. Not everyone is redeemed. Even though that’s sad, I think it’s a good thing that this film doesn’t have a perfect happy ending. If Christians see the movie and think everyone they share Christ with will instantly convert, they’ll have unrealistic expectations about evangelism, and they’ll get discouraged when things don’t go the way they want them to. The movie has a satisfying ending that also leaves the audience with realistic expectations for life, and that’s rare in movies nowadays.
But the best thing about God’s Not Dead, and my favorite thing by far, is its message. Like I said before, the movie has a very plain, clear message that anyone who hears the movie’s title is going to get. Many people won’t believe it, but they can’t deny that the belief that God’s not dead is a popular one, and it’s not going away. The message that God is alive is an empowering one to Christians. It encourages them to live their lives as if the God they serve is alive and present with them. The movie itself encourages Christians to tell everyone they know that God’s not dead. It gives a clear call to action, and I think that’s something that is desperately needed in the Church today.
Final Thoughts
Is God’s Not Dead a perfect movie? No. Does that mean you shouldn’t go see it? No. You definitely should. There’s a reason it’s so popular. It’s a good movie with a good message that we all need to hear. Hopefully it will inspire you to live your life as if God is alive because (spoiler alert) He is! I would recommend God’s Not Dead to anyone who asked me about it. It’s appropriate for any age, and it has something to offer to everyone. Just to be clear, I think you should go see this movie.
I think you should also be careful while watching this movie. Let it encourage and inspire you. Let it give you hope that God’s not dead and that the people around you know it, too. Just don’t let it give you any unrealistic ideas about people like college professors, Muslims, and liberals. Just like there are stereotypes about Christians that don’t apply to you and me, there are stereotypes about those groups of people that don’t apply to them. So enjoy the story, but don’t get too caught up in it.
Because ultimately the story, even if it is flawed, is just a medium to get the point across, and it does that well. If God’s Not Dead is any indication of the direction Christian film is headed, then I’m hopeful. As Christians, we need to be spreading the message of God’s love every way we know how, and film is a very powerful way of doing that. So go see the movie, tell your friends about it, and remember: God’s not dead!
